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Despite our best efforts to resist it, many of us have been shaped - and scarred - by the legacy of dysfunctional masculinity. All men carry traces of this inheritance. In ways seen and unseen, we’ve been both wounded by it and, at times, complicit in passing it on.

Here 's what I don't like about the term "people-pleasing" : it is inherently shaming.

"A society grows great when old men plant trees, the shade of which they will never sit in" (from Afterlife)

The deep intelligence and wisdom of the snake calls us to shed the old and make way for the new.

An original poem reflecting a call from the heart: 'Help is abundant, be wise and use it'

Like a Banksia Man with many mouths, we are full of discordant and opposing voices, but perhaps there is a way of finding harmony.

Exploring our Relationship with Anger

The circle of shame, really, is just a fire that burns up the shame altogether.

Allowing things to take their time

When we point at what we love, it is a way of knowing what it is we can or do love of ourselves.